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Michael Edward's avatar

Great post Priya!

I liked this discussion of the refusal of the journey. And I found your story of letting go of being wronged as a particularly practical example of how we refuse the call.

I also really liked your butterfly meditation it was a beautiful contemplation.

Priya Srinivasan's avatar

Thank you for your comment, Michael! It’s much appreciated!

Marple's avatar

It is good to be courageous in our day to day lives.

Priya Srinivasan's avatar

Hello! It’s always a work in progress, yes?

Julie Gabrielli's avatar

Love this! Very timely and lucid discussion of the refusal. When I first learned of it, I felt liberated from something I couldn’t name. To know it’s an integral part of the journey is to have self-compassion. How could I blame or shame myself for that part of me working hard to keep me safe? I think of it as similar to weight training. The refusals are necessary reps that build strength, confidence, trust and endurance for the next stages of the journey.

Priya Srinivasan's avatar

I agree totally! I think knowing or having the expectation that all these stages are part of the process of change is so helpful! Thank you, Julie!

Reena Kapoor's avatar

Loved this. Letting go of so much including grievances almost becomes a call for reinvention of who we think we are, an identity question that scares us!

Priya Srinivasan's avatar

Totally! Thanks, Reena!

Justin McCullough's avatar

Well done post!

Priya Srinivasan's avatar

Thank you, Justin!