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Camilla Sanderson's avatar

I have to tell you Priya, this post of yours gave me such a heart lift🥰 I just awoke from a nap (I'm still jet lagged from a visit 'down under') and today it's so grizzly outside here in Southern NH with grey skies and an ice storm making the branches on each tree bend down low with buds of little icicles (the spelling of icicle looks wrong, but I checked and it says that's it.) And I love reading your writing and I love the idea of your post and I love the quotes you shared too!

And my favorite instructions for living a life come from Mary Oliver:

Instructions for living a life:

Pay attention.

Be astonished.

Tell about it.✨🌟💖🙏🕊️

P.s. in response to this that you write: "I’m going to write essays about these three topics - dreams (what do they mean, where do they come from), ***the self (can we trust ourselves?)*** and living in the heart of a paradox- over the next three weeks."

In another lovely moment of synchronicity, Jamie and I had a Buddhist sutta study Zoom gathering today with a Buddhist monk friend, and he was talking a lot about the *self* and how "self" is just a construct that often creates suffering. (I think what the Buddhists call "self" Eckhart Tolle calls "ego" - i.e. that sense of self we identify with as being superior or inferior.)

We discussed the difference between:

What is it that gives rise to joy?

vs.

How can I feel joy?

And how the latter often brings grasping/clinging. The sense of *self* is embedded in the quest. What the sense of self is and how it keeps slipping into the picture.

♥️🙏🕊️

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Julie Gabrielli's avatar

This is so rich. It feels simple but not easy. I look forward to reading more. I don’t think I can top “work your dreams, trust yourself, and live the questions.” 😊 I might add “Don’t take anything personally,” and really any of the other Four Agreements. I also feel great affinity for Bucky Fuller’s advice: “You don’t change things by fighting the existing reality. To make change, build a new reality that makes the old one obsolete.”

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